I am not a scientist, I do not have a PhD nor do I conduct research or biological studies, but I read news, I read blogs, I talk to people and I observe. Based on what I have seen, heard, and observed, I truly believe that today’s women surely has some power. Be it the power of intuition, six sense or perception.
Sheets of paper and rolls of films have been dedicated to describe a woman. Many women-oriented books written by Indian authors truly reveal the secret underlying womanhood. Biologists have spent their lifetime decoding the mystery of a woman, but the fact is that women still continue to be an enigma. Her enigma embodies her beauty and this beauty is profound. Many famous quotes and poems have been written about women, which truly explore the qualities underlying women. A charming woman does not follow the crowd. She is herself. Yes, she is herself and the very truth is that she knows her self-worth.
It is important for women to realize their self worth, and should know their value in their life as well as in their counterpart’s life. Women like nature are natural givers so it is essential that they should posses a healthy mind and body, as believed that a healthy mind persists in a healthy body. I have often noticed women sacrificing for their family, living up to the expectations of their spouse and providing each and every materialistic thing their kids crave for. That is what a woman, a wife, a mother does, which truly describes the 3 faces of a woman. So, it is essential that women should take good care of themselves, eat healthy and nutritious food as they have important roles to play in their womanhood.
At the end of the day if we ponder upon the thought or rather, ask women what have they actually achieved in life, many of them would be mum. Socialists have said that women are sacrificing; which is true, as I have seen that in my own family. When my mother cooks our favorite dish, arranges the dining table, serves food and eats whatever is left after serving us. Towards the end, she makes sure that we have our tummies full before going to bed. I remember my mother putting aside her wish to have a new dining table, so that my brother and I can have a study table. Similarly, there have been many instances, which indicate that women can sacrifice their dreams, desire, aspirations and want to the utmost limit.Let us have a quick view and ponder upon the ideal roles which a woman plays and, which adds to a woman’s worth. Women who haven’t realized their worth till date, need to read it for sure, so go ahead and have a look.
Women are powerhouses: Women can tackle just about anything. They work full-time, as working women come home after an eight to ten hour work and then cook or arrange dinner on the table.
Women are creators: Without women, the human race would not have existed.
A woman is behind every successful man
Women are self-sacrificing: They always put their needs second especially for their children, spouse, and family members. A mother will put aside a pair of shoes she has been dying to have so that way her child could have what he/she wants. A woman will put aside her career to start a family.
Women are smart: Women learn all trades of life from working, playing sports, cooking, cleaning, giving birth, raising children, to holding down a full-time job while taking care of her family.
Women are fighters: A woman’s experiences in life may bring her down, but then will bring her right back up again. She knows how to move forward and she knows how to fight for her life and her rights.
Helen Keller, Mother Teresa, Indira Gandhi..... If we for a minute go in flashback and realize “What do these people have in common?”. The views that come to our mind are: one, they are women; two, they are successful leaders; three, their lives were full of struggle, but they succeeded nevertheless. There is lot to learn from the stories of women leaders. In the case of Helen Keller, she had to overcome her physical disabilities to fulfill her dreams. Mother Teresa spent her lifetime in India, serving the poor. These are the women of substance--women who fought for dignity, independence, and individuality. Other than these famous women, there have been many other who may not be that well known for their deeds. This is my message to all the struggling women: "Hold on tight and keep it going". I dedicate my first blog to all the women and wish to inspire them through my writing, as there is a lot more to uncover, so hang on…
Written by: Neha Gupta
neha.gupta@evangelists.in